RealMen vs Plura: Meet partners & friends Usage & Stats

Bloom Community is now Plura! Featured on Cosmopolitan’s “10 Best Poly Dating Apps”, and Men’s Health's “The 9 Best Polyamorous Dating Apps”. Plura flips the script on the painful hamster-wheel of online dating and gets you to the date before the swiping. **Dive into Exciting Adventures:** Plura is the go-to app for queer, sex+, growth-oriented, and alternative people to find their people. Dive into a world full of exciting opportunities as you meet a diverse group of friendly and open-minded people. Whether you're looking for fun dates, new friends, or cool events, Plura is your go-to place for new adventures. **Choose from 1,000 monthly events** : On Plura, you will find the events hosted by the top sex+ communities in your city: parties, workshops, munches, picnics, happy hours, jams and so much more. **Make sure you have an epic night:** See who’s coming to the event, and match, and make plans to catch up at the venue. Walk into the event recognizing a few friendly faces and jump straight into connection. **No more lost connections:** Have you met someone you vibed with? Find them on Plura, match with them, and deepen the connection. Our data shows that matching after an event happens 10X more than with traditional swiping. **Find people who align with your values** At Plura, we're a welcoming community that encourages you to be yourself and connect with others. We hope that all the people you meet on the platform are continually working to become better at consent, more skilled in communication, and prioritize inclusion over fear. **Consent** At its best, consent is an ongoing collaboration between two or more people in constant verbal, physical, and emotional dialogue about what each other needs to willingly, safely, and pleasurably engage in an interaction with one another. Consent must be affirmative, competent, informed, unprepared, specific, and ongoing. **Communication** We express our interests, needs, and boundaries, which creates a shared space to connect and play. We choose discomfort over resentment and speak out when things don’t feel good. We equally invite people to communicate their experience whether it’s positive or negative. **Inclusion** To invite everyone to express themselves, organize, and connect, welcomed, and celebrated. Plura will not tolerate any sort of sexism, racism, transphobia, fatphobia, or ableism. Creating an inclusive and welcoming space requires work on all of our parts, especially those who have benefited from unequal power dynamics and move through the world with more privilege. Download Plura today and let the good times begin!