Diem: Big Group Chat Energy vs True - Private Group Sharing Usage & Stats
Welcome to Diem! We’re building the front door to “girl internet.”
Diem is a social-network-meets-search-engine designed for girls, women, and gender-expansive people. Our platform is full of collective knowledge from people all over the world. In Diem you can start conversations, discover a network of communities, connect over shared experiences, browse trending topics, search with Diem AI, and find answers to anything life throws at you. “How do I get over a friend breakup? What’s the best way to negotiate salary? My boyfriend follows models on Instagram—is that a red flag?” Your fellow Diemers are here to help.
Joining Diem means showing up with no judgment, and immersing yourself in the candid, funny, authentic, important, frenetic, supportive, outrageous, honest, and wholesome conversations of other Diemers, which span everything from birth control to friendship, sexuality to pop culture, parenting to relationships, money to reproductive health, career to books, and so much more. Diem is the best and biggest group chat you’ve ever been a part of. It’s giving… 1am girls bathroom energy.
We are starting to build out topic-based communities, we call these sub-feeds Spaces. Here's a few:
- BSA (Big Sis Advice): sometimes you just need sisterly advice!
- ITN (Is this normal…): we’ve all been there... searching the internet wondering if our experiences are “normal.”
- AMA (Ask Me Anything): wisdom you want to share? Start an AMA!
- NJP (No Judgment Pls): for all those questions you’re worried others will judge you for in the outside world.
- Hidden History: this is a Space to co-write underrepresented stories back into history.
- SOS: when you need the girls, ASAP!
Want us to create a new Space or run one yourself? Email us: info@askdiem.com
What can we promise you’ll find in Diem?
Thousands of authentic conversations
From awkward sex questions to wholesome big sisterly advice or navigating life’s highs and lows, Diem is full of the collective knowledge of girls, women, and gender-expansive people all over the world. There’s no judgment here and you’ll feel that very quickly. Share your story and connect with new Diem friends.
Diem AI-powered search
Ask Diem AI, our AI-powered search tool, your questions! You can think of Diem AI as your most knowledgeable Virgo “big sister” who lives in your back pocket. Diem AI draws from across the internet and the collective wisdom of Diemers to generate you a speedy answer. It will also deliver previous, related conversations as your search results. You can dive in to these existing community perspectives OR you can post your search to the community feed too!
Safety First
Safety & moderation are our top priority at Diem. See something, say something! We have distributed moderation—if you report something, we review it, ensuring there’s no violation of the community culture.
Post anonymously or under a pseudonym
We think of the anonymous feature as a confidence booster. Sometimes posting ‘taboo’ questions or personal stories publicly can be nerve-wracking, so this feature is designed to make you feel more comfortable while getting the advice you need.
Upvoting
See a post or response you want to give some love to, click to “heart” it!
Creating Posts
If you have a longer story or advice to offer (attn: all wannabe advice columnists!) you can click “Create Post” and type out all your stories or wisdom. These posts will live in the related topic forums, people will be able to comment on these posts too.
We’re very early in our journey to build Diem into the social search engine and ‘front door’ to the girl internet (aka the place we’ve all been dreaming of)! If you have any problems, feedback, or ideas for the app, get support at info@askdiem.com and our small team will get back to you ASAP.
Happy gossiping!
Privacy Policy: https://www.askdiem.com/privacy-policy
Terms of Service: https://www.askdiem.com/terms-of-service
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Social media shouldn’t be creepy and it doesn’t have to be. True has been designed to protect your privacy with private threaded, beautiful sharing.
• Focused on people you really know, we’re making social a safe, happy place again without personal data mining
• It’s the quality of relationships, not quantity, that make us happier. We’re building new ways to tell your story, connect with friends and strengthen your community
• No manipulative algorithms, genuine connections, original content from real people
• We don’t spy on you, read your cookies or follow you around the internet. You own your data, forever, and we’ll never sell or share it with anyone
It’s time to try an honest solution. True is real friends and real life without commercial interruption.
The True Story
True was founded in a lovely little mountain town filled with giant redwoods, beautiful valleys and neighbors who look after each other.
It’s this real-life Happy Valley that inspired us to build a company that gets back to things that matter. Real friends and real life without commercial interruption.
It’s the quality of our relationships, not the quantity, that make us happier. It’s the joy of making new friends and connecting with old ones that strengthen our sense of community.
Somehow, in a rush for growth and profit, these feelings have been lost. Social today no longer feels like a Happy Valley, it’s more like we’re all living in a big creepy commercial.
Big social companies are in the middle of our relationships. They’re taking our best intentions and selling them to the highest bidder.
Well, we’re just not going to do that anymore.
Why Should I Trust You Guys?
There’s a lot of talk about privacy. Every few weeks, another big company gets caught in a new scandal. But there is never anything really done about it and we go on accepting the problem.
The crazy thing is, this is never going to stop. As long as these companies make money by selling our personal information, they will find ever more devious ways to collect it.
But we never signed up for this. We didn’t post our lives, families and personal relationships for sale. We did not agree to let these companies make money from being in the middle of our friendships.
We believe you should be free to share your life without big brands competing for your attention. You should own your information and decide what you want to do with it. 3rd parties should never have access to your data. You should not be the product.
We believe your privacy matters. We take it into consideration with every decision we make. You should believe we respect your privacy and trust we’ll do the right thing with your information.
What’s Different About It?
We just don’t think you can be yourself in a world of perfect pictures awash in a sea of influencers. Old-school social is for blasting your life to people you don’t really know, measured by standards you will never achieve.
So we’ve built a new kind of threaded sharing that is private by default. Until now, no one has tried this before. It gives you control over things you want to share and who you want to share them with.
By combining beautiful, edge-to-edge storytelling with private messaging, it’s the best of both worlds.
What do we all love? Updates from real friends. But original thoughts and stories have gone missing in big social.
Sadly, most content today is created by companies with an agenda. We share an endless stream of news and ideas pushed by these companies and no longer share our real lives.
So we built a platform that only allows original content. There are no outside links or political arguments here. You come to True to see real updates from friends. Content they created themselves, not clickbait designed to hold your attention and manipulate opinion.
True lets you… be you. Real sharing from real friends, we’re making social a safe, happy place again.
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Diem: Big Group Chat Energy VS. 
True - Private Group SharingJanuary 3, 2025